...and we lament, 'Oh, he has changed', without pausing to consider the objectivity of the statement. We like people to stay whoever they have been so long, because it then means we don't have to alter the patterns we have set for them, and when, in our view, they alter themselves even a wee bit, we frown, and even that small changes causes a butterfly effect on the set of patterns, however irrelevant they might be to the particular change.
And that was what i discovered the last time I checked - 'our view'. In many cases, it may not be the person that changes, but only our view of him. Our views, which change constantly as a result of all the experiences we keep having. Our views, which keep adding layer after layer, filter after filter,so that the tint that we see once may never be seen again.That perhaps is why the youth are not able to have a child like innocence in their perspectives, and the middle aged can never find their youthful exuberance in their views, and so on...
And so, the next time, i say 'You have changed', I shall perhaps do a quick review of what really has changed.
until next time, next change
10 comments:
Incisive.
I'll assume 'for the better' in that case if the person saying this is you. :-)
sab maya hai!
You've changed!
-TCWB
You change. I change. Your view changes. My view changes...
Dont just stand there. Change !
austere: :)
arunima: thats nice :)
b: or so they say :)
TCWB: isnt that assuming you knew me in the first place?
kavi: i do, twice a day, how've you been? :)
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